We are currently in the air on a Qantas flight from Sydney,
Australia to Johannesburg, South Africa.
Yesterday we flew from Nadi, Fiji to Sydney and stayed overnight. Our dear friends from years ago in
Pennsylvania, Heiki and Vicki Rinne provided a ticket for us from Sydney to
Johannesburg, and generous donations from Mark and Alice Rampton and Dale and
Anne Kirby paid the way from Fiji to Australia.
The saying; “A friend in need is a friend indeed,” has been played out
in hundreds of ways through the terrible events of the last 2 ½ weeks since
Seth and Caroline’s accident. Friends
the world over have prayed, sent their best wishes and encouraging notes, and
made donations to a fund set up to help S&C with the expenses they do now
and will have in the future. We have no
idea how many temple altars have had their names laying upon them, perhaps
dozens. We cannot know the Lord’s will
in all this but we see His generous and loving hand in the outcome. Only in the future will we see more clearly
the importance of this event in the lives of this young family and in the
effect they will have on others. Surely
there must be some good that is intended in the great and mysterious scheme of
God but in the words of Paul, for now we “see through a glass darkly”.
After Seth arrived in Johannesburg and before Matt went
there to help, Seth Wiggins stayed by his side about 18 hours a day. They were fast friends before but this
experience will bond them forever. Seth
W. could not have done more, been more patient and faithful, or provided more
needed emotional stability and optimism than he has – what a rock. Many LDS Church members in Zimbabwe and
Johannesburg have done all that could be expected and more to provide relief,
consolation, and help – especially to Caroline and the kids. Still, Caroline has in some ways carried the
heaviest burden. Though injured herself,
she had to keep the family together and nurse her badly injured sister, Katie,
to a state that she could be flown home to California for further
recovery. The kids have been
disoriented, traumatized, and full of insecurity through all this and Caroline
has had to take the brunt of their neediness.
The family is in a state of flux and may return to Zambia soon without
their dad and husband. They need the
security and familiarity, and schedule of home and Seth will heal better if
they are not there for him to worry about when what he must do is pay full-time
attention to getting better himself. We
will have some time with Caroline and the kids before they go and hope that we
can relieve some of her burden, hold her and let her cry, and cheer up Tommy
and Cali. Sadly, just as we arrive in
Johannesburg, Seth Wiggins will be there to catch a flight home to Oregon.
A few days after Seth arrived in Johannesburg, I gave him a
blessing over the phone on July 19th. It’s
impossible to separate personal feelings from trying to be a voice for the
Spirit in such a circumstance, but I felt guided and fervently prayed for the
Lord’s help. Annie took some notes: Seth
Armstrong Sherry, in the name of Jesus Christ and in authority of the
Melchizedek Priesthood I lay my hands on your head, as it were, to give you a
blessing.
Dear son, it is always hard to
separate our will from the Lord’s. We would have you healed in a moment and
even protected you from this accident but the Lord is in charge and his hands
are upon you, even angels have kept watch over you. Just as promised in the temple and through the
holy garments, angels would watch over you and protect you. We cannot know tomorrow and we do not know
His will today, but in faith I bless your body, your systems and all the
particles that make up your bones even to the cells, with healing to function
at the highest level. I bless you to
heal under the best care. I bless the
doctor and those who work with him to have keenness of mind, intuition and
insight in future treatment.
When you wake up at night, while
you know we are not there, yet we are sitting next to you holding your
hand. I bless you to know that the love
we have for you is eternal. In the sacred name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
The statement about his “systems and particles and cells”
being focused on healing has come to pass in miraculous ways. Out of a hundred people who suffer the
injuries Seth has, 60% die, 37% live but are paralyzed from the neck down, and
3% live and heal with reasonable normalcy (though likely with some limitation). But even among the 3%, the medical people who
have worked with Seth agree that his recovery thus far has been “miraculous.”
We will be in South Africa for 3 weeks and during that time he will likely be
released from the hospital and either moved to an inpatient rehab center or to
the home where we’ll be staying and have his rehab physical therapy as an
outpatient. By the end of that time
things will be clearer for his future and perhaps he may even more miraculously
be able to fly either back to Zambia, or to the United States for more of his
long-term rehabilitation.
During the early period of this crisis, Caroline has said
that she is “done with Africa.” That’s completely understandable. But how complicated! They have a home in Zambia, a job, and the
uncertainty of the future. Can Seth work
again, and if so, when? Should they pack
up their things and move back to the US, and if so, where? If they did move to the US, what would Seth
do for work once he is able? There are
so many complications and unknowns. But
like every other step in this wrenching process, we have faith that the way
will be opened. Somehow the light will
come, the path will be shown, and the many angels who have accompanied this
family through the peril of the last few weeks will surely not be “off-duty” in
the coming days and months. We are profoundly
grateful for both earthly and heavenly friends who have kept vigil and done all
that was possible and right to bless Seth and Caroline and their children.
On August 24th, we will fly back from South
Africa to Sydney, stay overnight there and the next day fly to Nadi, Fiji and
then take a little commuter to Suva where we will stay until the 29th
when we fly to our new assignment on the island of Taveuni. We are switching places and assignments with
the Kennerlys who will go to Ba this week.
We were told of this transfer by President Klingler just prior to the
accident and he has patiently waited until things sorted out with Seth.
The whole of the last couple weeks have been
an exhausting blur consumed primarily with setting near the computer to hear
word on Seth and family, consult with doctors and medical friends, reply to the
hundreds of emails that have come, and make plans to move. But it is all behind us now and a new
adventure awaits in Taveuni, which is called the “Garden Island” of Fiji, the
crown jewel of relatively undisturbed and pristine beauty. It is 26 miles long
and 7 miles wide, has one main road that goes over about half the island on the
west side with the east half of the island being a natural preserve. It will be much more rural and undeveloped
than Viti Levu and Ba – even though that seems unimaginable in so many
ways. And the Church will reflect that
rurality. It is a part of a District,
rather than a stake, and has 3 branches and 1 unit at the southern end of the
island. Our assignment will be to watch
after and strengthen all the units, which means we will likely travel a lot and
not have the intense relationships we have had in Ba – that’s the sad part of
this new assignment. But who knows just
what we’ll really find and what friends we will yet make. We do know we’ve left dear friends in Ba,
people we’ve grown to love fully and without reservation. We have had a few days of tearful good-byes
and really couldn’t do that too much more, it was just so emotionally
draining. We gave our all there and
experienced so much in the way of challenge and difficulty, complaint, and
trial. But that all seems small now and
almost needs no mention compared to the joy of love we feel for those
people. I think that is just how
missionaries the world over feel about their work.
