Thursday, December 17, 2020

Christmas 2020

"Hope"
The Best Part of Christmas


    Oh, how we hope this lonely but wonderful Christmas season is the last hurrah for Covid and we won't again have empty chairs around the tree as we sit in our cozy decorated home with no family gathered round.  Christmas is just too important to not be sharing it with family and friends.
    We do send our love to each of you, and so appreciate the communications we have through the year, especially at the Christmas season.  We think of all the hopes for peace, health, and healing.  We pray that our collective lights, angels, and trees pointing heavenward will help bring those hopes to fruition in the coming months.
    Despite the circumstances, we look forward to the future and for now, count our blessings -- which truly are many.  This was emphasized in a cute video we saw the other day . . .
       We have had a singular year, with the most blessed event coming in January when our daughter, Emily donated a kidney to Matt.  As most of you know, 30 years earlier Annie breathed life on a dimly lit flicker when she gave a kidney to our very sick son, Matthew -- age 16 at the time.  That kidney was a rock-star, lasting 2-3x longer than most transplanted organs, but the time had come for a new change and Emily graciously provided.  There was terrific family and friend support for both families and any of our kids would have donated, but Emily was the best match.
Every family member pitched in to fold a 1000 paper cranes ~
symbol of prayers for restoration of health


The night before

Early morning just before surgery


Gratitude as they separate for surgery
     
Successful surgery has brought new life to Matt.  Both he 
and Emily have healed beautifully.
    In June, we said goodbye to Tom's mother, Virginia.  She left her 93 years with a legacy of vigor, love, and engagement -- seeking to bless others as she spread cheer and faith.  Near the end at a very difficult time, she looked at her patient care giver and said: "Thank you for helping me learn how to die, I've never done this before."
Hosting her annual Valentines Party at the Men's Homeless Shelter

Her favorite song was "Accentuate the Positive," by Bing Crosby.  The chorus reads: "You've got to accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative; latch on to the affirmative,and don't mess with Mr. In-Between." Even in her dying days, the song invigorated her . . .

Grandson Tommy designed the "love heart" and Tom made the
 box for her ashes.  Thanks to Leah and Matt for
"laying her to rest" when others could not be there due to Covid
She was buried in the same grave as her husband, Rudolf Broennimann ~ SLC, Utah
    To complete the year of memory, in November we traveled to the Olympic Peninsula to place a commemorative plaque on Annie's parents' gravesite.  Like Virginia, Beverly lived out her final days in the same care facility in Corvallis just 2 years earlier.  She was a lady of class, great accomplishment, and extraordinary breadth of experience.  She sought out  the best in others and made them feel like they had an understanding advocate that genuinely cared.  Our parents are all gone now, and we honor them.

We often joined family at Dick and Beverly's home in Gardner, Washington on the Olympic Peninsula for Thanksgiving.  Fall visits always included apple cider making.

A farewell toast
    We did get some ever-so brief times with some family this year despite the pandemic -- squeezing them in as they visited their Gma Virginia and us. Their stays were way too short but we're grateful for the time we had. Here's a peek (in no particular order) . . .




























    There's a natural products store in Corvallis named, First Alternative.  And that might be a theme from our recent year -- using our electric bikes as our "first alternative" in travel, exercise, errands, and sheer joy.  We go everywhere on them and have largely given up car travel unless absolutely necessary.  We are having fun -- just plain old fun -- and invigorating our health in the process!


Packing Willie home ~ pretty great view!

Riding the Crater Lake Rim with buddy, Mark Rampton
32 miles of blissful beauty!

No matter the weather it's so fun to be out riding!
    This year has focused our appreciation for so many essential things.  We look forward to a better year, better health for our country, better love between people, better economics, and better attendance to the most important things -- family and fellow beings.  As one church leader has said: "We can have hope, we should have hope . . . Among our most indispensable virtues will be this precious gift of hope linked inextricably to our faith in God and our charity to others."  Indeed, we can have a "perfect brightness of hope" in whom we celebrate this season (Book of Mormon, 2 Nephi 31:20) .

Our love to you all, and Merry Christmas!

Annie & Tom
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Here ya go - the annual cavalcade of our children and their families!

Matt, Jessica, Lizzie, & Sofia Sherry ~ SLC, Utah

Alysee, Alexa & Alex (married), Nathan, Sara, Birch, Chloe, Cooper, and Tyler Ditto ~ Yakima, Washington
(Tyler is now serving a mission to Kobe, Japan,
though starting out in SLC until Covid settles down)

Emily, Sage, Ryan, Truman, Hazel, and Mila Andersen ~ Yakima, Washington

Isaac, Lucy, Geoff, Kate, and Leah Wright ~ Mapleton, Utah

Willie, Seth, Caroline, Cali, & Tom Sherry ~ Corvallis, Oregon

Laura and Jared with Sawyer, Isla, and little Rue ~ Lompoc, California
Luke and Camilla ~ on top of Mt. Adams, Washington
Now living in Pasadena, California


12 comments:

Unknown said...

Thank you for sharing your lives and that of your children's. It's been a very challenging year. But, it's so wonderful to see how well everyone has been coping. Love you all! Love, Ajae (Julie)

TeriAndy said...

We love it! Best Christmas card ever! What a joyous and touching year you have had. We are now Sr. Grandparents having 15 grandchildren, and having laid to rest all 4 parents. Your are still the fine example for us youngsters. May you have even more joy in 2021 and be blessed with many more millennia to enjoy that beautiful family! Love you guys.

Andy & Teri - Mapleton, Utah

dennis and Kaye said...

We are so grateful for the miracles your family experienced during the Covid trials. You have a wonderful family. thanks for sharing
dennis and kaye....springville UT

Kim Barry said...

Sweet letter from a great couple! Miss you! Merry Christmas!

Fowler family said...

Beautiful! Thank you for sharing the wonderful events of 2020. Love that you’re biking around Corvallis and have inspired our parents to do so as well. Much love! -Fowlers

Lori said...

Thanks for sharing with us your wonderful family and special events of 2020! Both you and Annie are beacons of hope and love to Richard and I and so many. Have a Merry Christmas! Here’s to more biking, joy and family in 2021!

Unknown said...

My heart is full of Joy and NOW, Hope . Thank you for your inspiring Christmas Blog. I have so much love for everyone in our family.

May each and every one of you remained blessed in Faith and Love. Warm Regards.

Unknown said...

What a beautiful family and a wonderful life you have created. You are an inspiration!

Unknown said...

I forgot to mention, this is Julie Kahn.

Charlotte Pratt said...

Thank you for sending this to us. We have loved reading the news of your family, and seeing the wonderful pictures. We had a terrific visit this September to see Lynne and Tony on Orcas, and spent three nights “glamping” at Pat and Trish’s property on Lopez Island. Our son Clayton and his family now live in Olympia, and so we look forward to enjoying more time in the PNW. Thank you for your Christmas message of hope. We wish you a good 2021.
George and Charlotte Pratt

Lisa Rampton Halverson said...

It is so very fun to read your newsletter and see all these wonderful photos. Seeing the photos of Matt pre- and post-transplant: I'm SO grateful Annie kidney lasted so long, but also so very grateful for Emily's fresh one. Matt, you truly look like a changed man. Thank you, Emily, for that gift to your brother!

Russ & Rhonda Dunlap said...

Thank you so much for this gift...gift of your soulful words and your beautiful family. I did not realize Aunt Virginia had gone to her Heavenly Father. She was such an amazing lady...I was so glad to have her close by when I was attending school in Cheney. I have such great childhood memories of my favorite Spokane family. Blessings to you all! Much love Russ & Rhonda Dunlap